Joining your families together is challenging and can be overwhelming at times. There are things that you can do to “set up” this situation and dynamic more proactively and with better outcomes. You are trying to work together to do what is best for the kids, and it is also important to balance that with your need to be a couple. With so many moving parts, it may be helpful to have professional assistance.
Marriage & Family Therapist, Relationship Issues, Divorce & Family Conflict.